This simple Japanese Sesame Sauce (Goma Dare) is creamy, flavorful, and savory. Use it as a dipping sauce for shabu shabu (Japanese hot pot) or try it with steamed vegetables, cold or hot tofu, green salad, and somen or udon noodles. The possibilities are limitless!

Japanese Sesame Sauce, or Goma Dare (胡麻だれ), is one of the dipping sauces typically served with the Japanese hot pot, Shabu Shabu. However, there’s so much more to this flavorful and creamy condiment. It is as wonderful as a dressing for salads and noodle dishes, or as a sauce to pair with grilled or steamed veggies and tofu!
Let me show you how make Goma Dare from scratch, with just a few simple ingredients.
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What is Goma Dare?
Goma (胡麻, ごま) refers to sesame seeds, while Dare or Tare (たれ) translates to sauce in Japanese. Pronounced as [Goh-mah Dah-Leh], this delectable sauce is made from Japanese sesame paste, sugar, soy sauce, rice vinegar, and dashi (Japanese soup stock).
Its consistency is smooth and creamy, offering a harmonious blend of nutty, sweet, salty, and umami flavors. It enhances the taste of whatever you’re dipping or dressing without overshadowing the inherent flavors of the food.
Whenever I prepare Goma Dare for Shabu Shabu, I make extra to refrigerate for later use in various dishes.

Ingredients for Goma Dare
You can find the ingredients’ measurements in the recipe card below.
- Japanese sesame paste (nerigoma) – More about it below.
- Sugar
- Soy sauce
- Rice vinegar – Try to use rice vinegar as it’s a lot milder than other kinds.
- Dashi (Japanese soup stock) – You can make it from scratch (Kombu + Bonito Dashi or Vegan Dashi) or use a quick and easy Dashi Packet (I used this method for this recipe). You can also make dashi using water and Dashi Powder.
- Salt
How to Make the Best Sesame Sauce
- All you need to do is to mix everything. I recommend mixing the sesame paste and sugar first and making sure the sugar is completely dissolved before adding any liquid ingredients.
- Then, add the soy sauce and rice vinegar, followed by the dashi.
- Taste it and adjust it with salt.
What is Nerigoma (Japanese Sesame Paste)?
Nerigoma (ねりごま) is a Japanese sesame paste made by grinding whole toasted white sesame seeds into a paste. There are both white sesame and black sesame pastes, so make sure to choose the white sesame paste for this recipe.


Where to Find Nerigoma
- You can find nerigoma on Amazon (here and here) or in Japanese grocery stores.
- You can also get Chinese sesame paste (zhī ma jiàng, 芝麻酱) from Asian grocery stores. I have never tried it, but I assume it’s similar to the Japanese variety.
- You can get a Mediterranean sesame paste called tahini at most American grocery stores; however, it’s similar yet not quite the same as the Japanese variety in terms of texture and taste. Tahini is made from hulled, raw sesame seeds, which is why it’s lighter in color and less flavorful.
I assume everyone will be using a different type of sesame paste for this recipe, so please adjust the amount as needed.
How to Make Sesame Paste on Your Own
Another option is to make your sesame paste from scratch using roasted sesame seeds and a food processor. With just one ingredient (sesame seeds!), you can make a beautiful paste, and here’s the tutorial on how to make sesame paste.

Cooking Tips
- Mix the sesame paste REALLY well. Do this before measuring as the paste separates from the oil while stored in the jar.
- Reduce the amount of the same paste if you’re using a homemade version. Your homemade sesame paste is very rich, flavorful, and thick, so you don’t need as much as the store-bought one. Some high-end sesame paste brands also offer a thick paste, so adjust accordingly.
- You need enough liquid to make a smooth sesame sauce. While you’re gradually adding liquid to the sesame paste, you will see the paste start to solidify, like when chocolate seizes (read this article). Don’t panic. If you add more liquid, it will become smooth again.
- To make a really good sauce, use high-quality sesame paste (or make a homemade version!), make a strong, concentrated dashi, and use just the right amount of salt to bring out the flavors. But go easy with the soy sauce as it will only make the sauce darker by adding more.

Delicious Ways to Use Goma Dare
Goma Dare is amazing for dipping the ingredients when you enjoy shabu shabu, but don’t stop there! You can certainly use it for many more dishes. Below are some of my favorite ways to enjoy the sauce. If the sauce is too thick for a dish, you can dilute it with dashi. Add more rice vinegar to make it a refreshing salad dressing!
- Shabu Shabu
- Steamed Vegetables or Grilled Vegetables – asparagus, potatoes, cabbage, carrot, and more!
- Cold Tofu or Hot Tofu
- Homemade Udon Noodles
- Somen Noodles

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How to Make Sesame Sauce (Goma Dare)
Ingredients
- 3 Tbsp Japanese sesame paste (neri goma) (if using a thick paste like my Homemade Sesame Paste or Wadaman brand; use 4 Tbsp for a thin and smooth paste like Kadoya brand or tahini)
- 4 tsp sugar
- 1 Tbsp soy sauce
- 4 tsp rice vinegar (unseasoned)
- 2 Tbsp dashi (Japanese soup stock) (I used a dashi packet; or use standard Awase Dashi, dashi powder, or Vegan Dashi; a strong, concentrated dashi makes a more flavorful and delicious sauce)
- ⅛ tsp Diamond Crystal kosher salt
Instructions
Before You Start…
- If you‘re here for the old version of my Sesame Sauce recipe, please see the Notes at the end of the recipe card. However, I highly recommend that you try this revised recipe!
- Gather all the ingredients. Please note that one batch yields ½ cup (120 ml), roughly 2 servings as a dipping sauce for Shabu Shabu. If you also serve Ponzu dipping sauce alongside this sauce, then you may have enough for 4 servings.
- Mix your sesame paste really, really well before you measure it, as the oil tends to separate in the jar. Then, measure the sesame paste and add it to a small bowl. I used my Homemade Sesame Paste with a thick consistency, so I measured 3 Tbsp for one batch. Use 4 Tbsp if your paste is thinner. Tip: Use a silicone spatula to scrape it off the measuring spoon so you can measure it precisely.
To Make the Sauce
- Add 3 Tbsp Japanese sesame paste (neri goma) and 4 tsp sugar to a small bowl and mix well until it is completely dissolved.
- Then, add 1 Tbsp soy sauce and 4 tsp rice vinegar (unseasoned) and mix together. Did your sesame paste clump up? If your paste is different from mine, this may happen. Don‘t worry; we‘ll fix it in the next step. Tip: According to this article, sesame paste is full of carbohydrate molecules that are drawn to the liquid you add. This produces clumps and thickens the paste. The paste will continue to clump and thicken as you gradually stir in more liquid. Once you add enough liquid, though, the sauce eventually will thin out and become smooth.
- Gradually add 2 Tbsp dashi (Japanese soup stock) to the mixture, drizzling in a little bit at a time. Blend in the dashi completely before adding more. Tip: Why gradually? It‘s extremely hard to blend the thin liquid into the thick paste. It‘s easier to combine when you introduce the liquid slowly.
- Repeat, adding a bit of the dashi and stirring to combine before adding more. Once you‘ve blended in all the dashi, the consistency of the sauce should be smooth and liquid but still thick.
- Taste the sauce. Add ⅛ tsp Diamond Crystal kosher salt to taste and stir to combine. You also could add more soy sauce if you wish (this will make the sauce darker). Your Sesame Sauce is now ready to use.
When Using Thin Sesame Paste or Tahini…
- Here, I made the sesame sauce using Kadoya brand sesame paste to share how it differs from using homemade paste. You can see that the sauce is much lighter in color. This paste is also thinner, similar to tahini, so I used 4 Tbsp of sesame paste for one batch of this sesame sauce.
To Serve
- Use this homemade Sesame Sauce as a dipping sauce for Shabu Shabu. This rich and nutty sauce goes well with all kinds of food, including Steamed Vegetables, Cold Tofu or Hot Tofu, Homemade Udon Noodles, and Somen Noodles. If the sauce is too thick for a dish, you can dilute it with more dashi. Add more rice vinegar to make it a refreshing salad dressing!
To Store
- You can keep the sauce in an airtight container and store in the refrigerator for up to 5 days.
Notes
Nutrition
Editor’s Note: This post was originally published on December 2, 2011. It’s been updated with new images and content and the revised recipe in March 2023 and republished on February 21, 2024.
Such a delicious sauce! The deep, roasted flavours of the sesame paste together with the umami and acidity of the dashi and vinegar respectively make for an incredibly addictive dip!
I would only like to comment that while most tahini available in the grocery stores are indeed quite light, both in flavour and colour, compared to nerigoma, not all tahini is. In Iraq and parts of Turkey and Syria for example, tahini is made with toasted sesame and is very comparable in flavour and colour to nerigoma, and would work as a substitute for anyone who has access to it!
Regardless, thank you so much for sharing this wonderful sauce!
Hi Buwer! We are happy to hear that you enjoyed Nami’s recipe!
And thank you so much for sharing your experience with Tahini.🥰
Thank you for adding your old recipe back! This recipe is the best goma recipe. Highly recommend and so easy!
Hi Stephanie, We are glad to hear you enjoyed Nami’s old recipe.😊
Thank you so much for your kind feedback and encouragement!
Perfect sauce for shabu-shabu!
Hi Teri! Thank you so much for trying Nami’s recipe and for your kind feedback!
We are so happy to hear that you enjoy the sauce as much as we do. 🥰
Happy Cooking!
Hi, thank you so much for all the recipes, i’m from the Philippines. Really appreciate it, my family always amazed whenever i cook your recipe, thank you again, God Bless you more
Hi Jenie! Thank you very much for reading Nami’s post and trying her recipes!
Nami and all of us at JOC are so happy to hear how much joy and excitement Nami’s recipe has brought to you!
We hope you continue to enjoy our site.😊 Happy Cooking!
hi Nami,
Do you have a tahini sauce you would recommend?
Hi Karen,
Nami usually uses Japanese Nerigoma and do not use tahini sauce. Here’s a review from Minimalist Baker: https://minimalistbaker.com/store-bought-tahini-review/
We hope this helps!🙂
This is perfect! I love the taste, the amount, the ease of prep. I always have all the ingredients on hand. I love being able to mix this up anytime we need it. Arigatou~~
Hi Chara! Thank you so much for trying this recipe and I’m glad to hear you liked it! Arigato for your kind feedback. 🙂
It’s a wonderful recipe
Thank you for the kind words, Hany!
I love your cook book. It’s the best Japanese cook book I’ve found. Thanks you for explaining everything so well. The dishes end up tasting and looking like the meals I have experienced in Japan and in Japanese restaurants so I am always please with the results.
Hi Kat! I’m so happy to hear your kind feedback. Thank you for trying my recipes! 🙂
I discovered your site today and tried the sesame sauce. It was a hit with the whole family. Thank you for sharing.
Hi Marie! I’m so happy you found my site and your sesame sauce came out well! Thanks so much for trying my recipe! 🙂
Is it for salads served in Japanese restaurants?
Hi Lynn! This Sesame Sauce is used for shabu shabu (as dipping sauce). I think you’re interested in this Sesame Dressing recipe:
https://www.justonecookbook.com/sesame-dressing/
Hope that helps! 🙂
This recipe was great. I bought some at a store and hated the fact that the main ingredient was high fructose corn syrup. Glad I have an alternative to store bought! Plus this recipe was ten times tastier! Thank you!
HI Kelly! I’m glad to hear you like the homemade sesame sauce! Thank you for your kind feedback. 🙂 xo
I made your recipes and it was amazing!!! my husband could’t stop eating 🙂 thank you
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Hi Vaniane! So happy to hear that! Thank you for your kind feedback! 🙂
Hi Nami,
Thanks a lot for your great recipes!!!!
Domo arigatou 🙂
Hi Yuli! Doitashimashite! 🙂